Your Husband isn't responsible for your Dream

 For some girls and parents marrying at the age of 20 is so proud. Mostly the girls who are getting married earlier happens in a demand for the girl. 

It mostly for the look she got , the more beautiful the girl is the sooner she gets married. Next for the wealth of their parents, parents who are very rich wants to see their girl getting married in a luxury hotel with more dowry. And they got a good demand too. 

 The girls too feels so proud that they are getting married to the best person , the wealthiest person on earth. So they expect everything from their Husband. Like dresses, jewels, nice house vehicle and everything.

In the beginning they will offer what ever the new wife ask for , but the reality is they cannot do everything they ask for because ,when the responsibility and family grew bigger with many kids the expances go higher.

When the husband refuse to do what ever the wife asks, there comes the devil of real face. And she feels upset that her husband is not like before, he doesn't care for me. And so on. 

So if you had a way of earning, you don't need to wait untill your husband fill your needs. If becoming a baker was your dream do it before you get married, if your dream was to becoming a doctor, an entrepreneur or anything get your qualifications before you get married. 

It's absolutely your parents responsibility to spend on your dream , if your husband wish and had a good heart of course he will help you achieve your dream. But it's not his responsibility.