OUR JOB IS TO WIPE OUT THE DISEASES, NOT THE PATIENT.

 Whilst sitting in Imam shafi's class oneday, his student Yunus Abn Abd Al A'la differed with him. He got angry that he left the class and went home. That night Yunus heard a knock on his door and asked who I was . The knocking answered " Muhammad Ibn "Offers. Yunus thought of everyone who he knew by that name except the Imam. Upon opening the, door he was shocked to see Imam Shafi.

Imam said : O Yunus hundred of issues unite us, and only one issue divide us ? Don't try to be triumphant in all differences: sometimes winning heart is more important than winning situation. Don't demolish bridges you built  and crossed, for you may need that oneday for your turn. Always hate what's wrong , but do not hate he who sinner. Criticize speech , but not the speaker.

It's easy to lose it,

It's easy to burn the bridges,

It's easy to hate a person,

It's easy to take vengeance,

But where does that get us ? 

It only makes us bitter and empty. Indeed it's good for the thought and timely action.

Arguments happens, but never hate the person whom you are arguing with, if you feel that you cannot win the argument just stay quiet. Because a fight or a misunderstanding after an argument will always give you stress. 

Peace is always better than a war. A stress will never give you happiness.