Read this ! If you don't want a divorce !10 Most Important Reasons, People ask divorce..

 Divorce is a word which was hated by every person. Only the person who gone through knows the loss and difficulty. One qoute I remember says, if you truly love your kids ,love your partner, because no matter whats your social status your kids love you. Because parents are the only person they trust. So for god sake dont put them in a situation to cry. 

marriage is very complicated, unless you both sacrifice and leave your ego you cannot lead a happy marriage. if you are not a person who can be patient when one person is anger ,marriage is not for you. also if you think that you are not ready to commit for one person don't get married. If you think marriage gives you only happiness its not true. 

So before you get married ill give you the reasons why people get divorced. So get ready before you get married. 

 

These are the conditions Affecting Stability of Marriage

1.Time of Marriage

The divorce rate is very high among couples who marry early,before they are vocationally and economically established. There are three reasons for this. 

First young people know that it will be relatively easy for them to remarry.

Second,those who marry early are likely to be plagued by financial by financial problems,which make

marital adjustment difficult.

Third, young people often have overly romantic concepts of marriage, which inevitably lead to disenchantment.

2.Reason For Marriage 

Those who are forced  to marry because of anything or pregnancy have higher than average divorce rate.

3.Economic Status

The lower the economic status of the family ,the higher the rate of desertion and divorce. This is true of couples of all ages.

4.Social Class

Desertion is more common among the lower social classes, and divorce among upper-middle and upper -classes.

5.Similarity of Background

Divorce is much more common among couples who have differant cultural, racial, religious, or socioeconomic backgrounds than among those whose backgrounds are more similar. This is especially true of couples with different religious backgrounds.

6.Number of Children 

There are more divorces among childless couples and those with few children than among couples with big families, mainly because the former can manage better after divorce than the latter. 

7.Parental Model

Marital success or failure tends to run in families. Children of happy married parents are far less likely to be divorced than children of unhappy married or divorced parents.

8.Ordinal Position in Childhood Family

Men who were only children have the highest divorce rate, while woman who were only children have the lowest. This can be attributed to the fact that only boys tend to be spoiled, while only girls learn to assume responsibilities. First born men , who also assumed responsibilities when they were young, have a lower divorce rate. First born women,who may have been domineering toward younger siblings,have a high 

9.Maintenance of Identity

Adults who can Maintain their identity after marriage ,and who have opportunities for self actualization, are far less likely to be divorced than those whose own lives are completely submerged in that of their spouses.

10.Time at Which the couple become Parents

The shorter the intervel between marriage and the birth of the first child, the higher the divorce rate. Couples who become parents early have not had time to adjust to marriage, which complecates their adjustment to parenthood.