Don't predict your future

Turning point of her life.

There lived a family , who is middle class to say to the world . But they were really rich. Father of the family was a hardworking man ,and was earning lots of money . But their father lived a very simple life. People who knows know they were rich . They had two beautiful girls who were young . Elder one is Emma and the younger one is Rose. They raised their kids very very nicely. They both were good at school either. The reason to say they looks middle class was their father doesn't like to show off or luxury life ,he  had an strong feeling that living luxury is a sin.

So he built a simple house, few old vehicles in their garage, simple foods everyday ,the girls used to wear the dress what their father brings when ever he goes abroad for a business tour. This father is very arrogant and commanding, everyone at home was  controlled by him. Those young girl's mother was a charming, simple lady ,who is doing everything at home cooking ,washing  and almost everything but never appreciated by her husband.

MomaMom father used to argue every morning and evening, even for small things , that they never think of the girls who gets upset with their fight . These girls were so confused and couldn't resist why their parents fights for everything. They couldn't concentrate,

on studies just because of this , they both always felt ashamed of them . They couldn't tell the world that they got the best mom and dad in whole wide world. They were selfish.

But the 2 young girls loved each other a lot. They share everything, elder one is very talkative and the younger one is just opposite for her ,she is very quiet. She had a very low self-esteem that no one loves her ,and she couldn't do anything by her self ,but she was scoring very well at school. Only thing is just because of her father gave everything she was asking ,she thought that she doesn't wanna study or get a job to treat her self .

That's where her first failure started , finally her sister got married and went to London. She just alone at home , worrying all  the time ,that she has no one to share her sorrows .time passed by with her studies and class works .1 year later her sister had a very cute baby, and when the baby gets 3months she came Back to her parents.

The house filled with happiness and joy again. The baby was treated like a queen at home . They had everything they wanted . The younger one Rose was studying at that time ,not because to have a job but just to learn something. She has never thought of earning money in the future because she never felt the need. 

One day , Rose was attending a wedding of her long distance relation ,and have been seen by her husband's mother. And that marriage was fixed how ever and they got married. She had to move to his husband's place soon after the wedding, where 100kms away from her parents.

They were all happy . His husband resigned his job before the marriage and spent the money he had in the savings . Soon all the money have finished , he started selling the things one by one. She has no idea about that . Rose was like , what the hell is going on . She never knew there are people who live without savings. She felt very sad that , their relationship either getting weak just because of this money issues.

Her husband's whole family was depending on him . He finally sold some of her jewelleries too. She was unable to handle this situation, couldn't even tell her or ask her parents for help. Because she is married. She was so stressed. And crying. One day she was like feeling not well . So she was sleeping whole day . Finally she realised that she didn't get her periods for a long time and she might be pregnant.

While his husband was jumping over the moon , she felt unhappy. Because she worried that , how am I gonna do this without having money . Time passed by. Her husband decided to go abroad, and as she heard the news and she fainted. Everything was new to her . She missed her parents and her sister very much. Rose never experienced this much harder in her entire life. Her husband went abroad few days later. she was so worried and didn't even think about the child she had in her womb. she was missing her husband a lot. 

As soon as her hubby went she went to her mothers place to stay. they cared for her a lot she had monthly clinics and check ups for the baby.. her hubby didn't send any money for her expanses. All her expanses were looked after  by her parents. days passed and she was still unhappy only few days more for her delivery. she had to buy all the stuff for the hospital needs, but she had no money. one day her father asked her to come to town she went with her and he asked her to buy all the stuff she needs for the hospital and for her needs and everything. she couldn't tell her gratitude towards her father, he understood what was in her mind. Because she always wanted her husband to do everything for her child. its ok if her husband is jobless or have no money . he was earning very well in abroad but he never sent money to her, she never asked anything . All she did was crying at night missing her husband every day. 

1 week before the delivery her husband has come  because of the delivery. She was happy to see him very much. All she wanted was to spend every moment with him. She finally delivered the baby 1 week after he come down. The baby was cute as a just bloomer rose. Her husband was so proud to have him in his hand .

All I want to say here is , get married if you are ready enough to make a kid and physically and mentally. Life after marriage is totally different. You will have to deal with some one you  neverpnever knew,whom  you never knew and unfamiliar qualities. You cannot change some one so easily even if you don't like their qualities. No marriage is perfect. The one who can bear the situations wins. There's a quote" if you don't like the place move " this can be applied anywhere but not in marriage. 

After you decided to make a baby , you cannot make any decisions easier. Because you need financially and emotional support of your husband . The only happiness you will have is to be loved by your husband. So it's better think twice before you get married , unless you are financially independent. As a young girl , Be financially independent before you get married. Buy what ever you want . Don't wait for someone else to fill your dreams. Keep a savings account for your self , buy your husband and family what ever you like . Surprise them. Live your life as you wish .

Dress ,eat , keep your self healthy. Take care of your parents. Prove that women can do  do anything in the world . So don't waste your young age ,  what we sow is what we reap.  Work hard for your future. You cannot hard work after you get 40. So study well, get any good job. Be independent. So once you married you will be your biggest strength. 

I must say that, if you are still reading and thinking a way of earning you still can do it , there are many women who succeeded in their life after marriage, you don't need a masters or PhD to earn money , if you can make a tea, use it , if you can cook or stich do it but not for free.

Internet gives us many opportunities that we can't believe , trust me there are many ways you can start your business without any investment.  So start with what you can , don't expect to be a millionaire in one week . Work hard for it it will pay you off . Don't expect until someone give you. Make a way for you . Once you become financially independent your marriage will be strong. Just sit in a quiet place and write down your abilities. Select what is more suitable for you and for your family . Start ,get help from people around you , make a progress. Don't fed up or stop in between, you may feel you can't do this anymore , don't give up. Try harder . Mistakes makes you perfect. You can do this.

Thanks for reading.

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