Children's Core Nature
If they haven't born with such habits how did they become Bad ? Who made them bad ? What made them bad ?
It's completely parents who should take all the responsibilities of your children who becomes uncontrollable.Babies brains are like an sponge which absorbs everything around them.they are the true learners.
As parents we try to protect our children and keep them away from harm but sometimes our children, (especially teenagers), start leaning towards activities because of peer pressure, a desire to ‘fit in’, wanting to try something new, they are bored, etc… Unfortunately, their unwise choices could negatively affect or destroy their future.
While we are busy forcing them to study we forget to communicate and spend time with them to teach them some good habits.You know what! our children love when parents talk to them ,just sit with them and see how happy they are and how much things they have to tell you ? You will wonder .Can a school syllabus make a good citizen? Never ! A school syllabus can never make a good child . They will become a doctor ,an engineer or he may hold a top qualifications academic world got ,but he may sometimes fail in his family life.
As a human being ,family comes first because the true happiness comes from our family . You may earn millions but if you don't have a lovely wife ,good children,caring parents to whom are you going to spend those money? What's the use of earning ? Even if you have less money you can be the richest man in the world if you got lovely people around you .from infant to elder we all love hugs ,do hug your kids whenever it's possible ,tell them you love them ,eagerly minute you see them , tell them that no one will ever love you like your parents , come to us if your friend throw you away. I'll be your best friend forever . Don't ever think that your kid will hate you if you advice them or punish them.
It's kid's nature to follow all bad and good things they see around because they may speak some bad words which he heard at school at home which you never spoke, don't get angry or sad just sit with them talk to them and educate him that people hates such words .don't speak like that .they will love you for teaching them. Try to teach good habits earlier before they grow up.you will never be able to correct someone after they grow up.
Getting highest score at school is nothing Infront of hearing that your kid is the best behaved kid I ever saw. Words cannot express how happy you will feel to see your kids treating other kids and elder people respected. Take time to read moral stories before go to bed with them.i still remember my father used to tell stories .I still remember what are those stories and those stories help me when dealing many situations.
No one likes a bad person, may be a situation made you become Bad . But you can correct it and be happy . You may be earning lots of money ,but if it is all by illegal you can never be happy with that .you always will feel guilty in you . You will have to live in fear .even if you earn a little be genuine, don't hurt anyone for your selfishness. I wonder why do some policemen get bribe ,why do doctors behave in government hospitals in one way and private hospitals another way , why do teachers misbehave, why do engineers use low quality products while getting paid properly.They are all educated but they are not genuine.
All the people who cheat someone, will get caught one day that's nature .It's better to be honest than cheating and worrying for what you did in the end.Do try to punish your kids for the mistakes he did in the early stage rather than seeing punished by someone else when he grew up.No one can make a perfect person, but we can try to create a decent human being. Everyone talks about leaving a better planet for our kids,let's try to leave better kids for our planet.
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